You know, I do a lot for my husband. I clean the clothes I take care of his dog. He can not have salt and I now cook without it for him. Now trust me if he can’t have salt I don’t want him t o have it. But I honestly feel like he doesn’t appreciate what I do. I honestly don’t think that he has a lot of respect for me. Some of the reason that is bc I bite my tongue a lot. I don’t say how I feel or I don’t call him on getting smart or disrespecting me. Saturday I was washing the spreads on the bed and he called me looking for the one purchased when we first moved in. I told him I did not have a clue where it was, I had been looking for it too. Then he goes in to I have taken it out the house and now I can’t remember where I put it. So then I thought for a second that was the case. I do have an issue with my memory bc of my MS. I said I will replace it. He told me I don’t have any money to replace it and was 150.00. I felt really bad. The next day I go outside to feed the dog and look in the shed and what do I see? The 150.00 comforter that meant so much. Yes, he puts it in the shed with lawn mower. Do you think he apologized? Not at all he didn’t say one word. I’m trying to keep my cool but at the same time I am steaming. He can make me feel so bad and it doesn’t even bother him. I take care of most things for our child. He doesn’t clean up. I pay all the inside bills and I even pay for all of the pay-perview fights that he orders and his friends come over. How do I handle this before I start to lose love for him?
unappreciated
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